Hey guys! It feels like forever since I last posted, but I think that’s only because so much has happened in the past few weeks. Like everyone else, I was disgusted by what happened at the Capitol on Jan 6th, but not entirely surprised by it. It was Trump’s destructive narcissism on full display. We are living in dark times for sure.Continue reading “outfit: top layers”
I don’t usually wear skirts anymore, but today, the chilly weather inspired me to resurrect this knit skirt, that I’m calling a “blanket skirt”, out from the back of my closet. Instead of curling up in my throw blanket, I decided to wear one. It kind of reminds me of something Lauren Manoogian would make, but like way less cool, and less $$$.Continue reading “a wardrobe rarity”
Hey guys. Well, nobody asked, but today I want to dedicate a post to my favorite t-shirt, the ATM Schoolboy slub crew neck tee.Continue reading “The t-shirts I wear nearly everyday.”
It feels like I’ve been shopping more than usual lately. I’m getting to know what I need in my wardrobe for this new place, weather, and stage in my life; I held back for a while, but now I’m just going for it. No time to waste.Continue reading “outfit: indoor outerwear + a movie recommendation”
The weather was beautiful today. It was warm and sunny this morning. In the early afternoon, it rained lightly for a few minutes while the sun was still out. I picked up some flowers for mother’s day, ran some errands, and was delightfully surprised to see a couple friends who came over for a quick hello. I’m feeling grateful for this very normal-nice day. That’s exactly what I needed after an extremely abnormal and intense work week. I haven’t yet taken my transcendental meditation class yet, but I feel like I need it more than ever and hope it helps because life is not getting any easier.Continue reading “outfit: front tuck – back tuck (+ a tour of the den)”
Update: I’m going to return the shoes in the previous post. They are beautiful and look cool, but they were difficult to slip on without unbuckling and buckling, and the soles were a bit heavy. I try to avoid returning things and never buy things with the intention of returning, but sometimes you have to. Oh well. The search goes on.Continue reading “outfit: 3D”
Thank god for MLK and this 3-day weekend!Continue reading “outfit: TGI-MLK-WKND”
Happy 2019 dear readers!
I’m back home after some holiday traveling. When I got home, a box with this knit sleeveless top was waiting for me at the door. It was a bit of a risk because I bought it on sale and it wasn’t returnable.
At first, I didn’t know what to make of the neck part of the top. It wasn’t long enough to fold over and out like a traditional turtleneck, but felt restrictive if standing up against my chin. After moving around in it a bit though, the fabric kind of naturally folded elegantly inward by itself. It was a subtle difference that turned this outfit from nun-wear to California-casual. Also loving the hair tucked into shirt look, especially because my hair is particularly huge these days.
These shoes are really starting to fall apart. The leather is peeling badly. I received two pairs of shoes that I bought over vacation (I did a lot of shopping this past week, ah!). Sadly none of them worked out, one was too wide, and the other too tight. One, I will have to re-sell, the other I can return for store credit. Note to self: never buy shoes that aren’t returnable, no matter how good the deal. Lesson learned.
In other news, we are adding some furniture to our bedroom, so things are a bit in flux in my apartment right now. My mirror is temporarily in the living room, but soon it will be replaced by a smaller mirror in the bedroom. I’m working on putting artwork on the walls and adding a few other things.
I don’t have any formal new years resolutions this year. I just want to work on furnishing the apartment and possibly finish up some dormant painting projects that have been lurking around in the back of my mind. This year, I want to have fun and be sort of loose with my goals, steering away from specific quotas and schedules.
I wore this outfit to the “Dog Beach” this afternoon, except that I changed these sneakers for sandals once I got there.Continue reading “outfit: semi-fancy millennial”
Hello my dear readers. I took an involuntary hiatus from posting again (sorry!). Work and life has been all consuming lately and I haven’t made time for regular posts, but I always look forward to coming back and hearing from you guys! A few people reached out to make sure we were safe from the deadly mega fires near Los Angeles, and luckily we are. Thank god. We are located deep within the city, no where near vegetation, so I think we will be safe from future fires as well. I’m sad and horrified by how many people have died in the fires and by how frequent these mega fires are occurring. I hope you all are safe and doing well. I’m sending a collective hug to you all!
In the past month, I haven’t been shopping or craving new clothes, until today. After realizing I’d worn the same dress to multiple work meetings, I suddenly wanted one more work appropriate dress for the fall weather.
The weather is starting to cool down a bit, and when I say cool, I mean around 65 degrees. Hardly cold at all. It does feel very cold in the office though especially when I’m sitting in one position for a long time, typing my notes.
Lately I’ve been reaching for the same 4-5 outfits every week. My first line outfits have been a loose top with my Muji wool skirt or Mijeong Park ribbed sweater dress (the cream version is on sale!). And my second line outfits have been long sleeved tops with various cropped work trousers. Now that we have an in-apartment washer and dryer, I can get away with re-wearing my favorites each week. But the problem is I’m wearing the same outfit each week! (as opposed to every other week which was my old routine in New York).
Anyway, I thought it would be fun to show you guys a few highlights from my dress search. I combed several websites: Vince, Need Supply, Hackwidth Design House, and Kowtow Clothing. I decided I didn’t even want to look at Everlane, Elizabeth Suzann, or Eileen Fisher today. I feel a bit oversaturated with their stuff lately. I narrowed my focus to dresses that had many of the same features in my beloved “first line” outfits, ie. dresses that were midi length, had a fit that graced the body (loose but not too loose), and was both modest and versatile. It is really important for me to be able to wear a non padded bra/bralette with my dresses without any embarassing nipplage showing. Not that anything is wrong with nipplage per se, but I work with a lot of disinhibited male patients that would take any chance to devalue me if they could and so I have to be mindful about what I wear to work for that reason.
The first dress at the top from Mijeong Park caught my eye. I love the oatmeal color and the soft rolled edges along the hem at the neckline and wrists. The fabrication is very similar to the hooded cardigan from MP that I already own. Ultimately though, I decided against it due to the fact that it would probably pill too much for an everyday dress, and it didn’t have any pockets. It would be really nice though for occasional wear.
Second dress that caught my attention was this beautiful ribbed dress from Kowtow! Wow it’s so nice. Understated but interesting when you pay attention to the details. The shape is very similar to my MP ribbed dress. So similar that I felt it didn’t make sense to spend so much money on something I basically already have. Plus, no pockets! Bummer.
Another great find at Kowtow. OK, this is not really a work dress at all, which is why I didn’t allow myself to buy it, but look how cute it is! I like the idea of layering a button dress over top a sweater dress. Genius!
I love the color of this teal dress at Kowtow. And loved how casual it looks too. Pockets were a plus, but something about it felt too serious and drab. A lot of times I get this urge to dress like a nun or monk and I have to consciously resist that, lol.
And here’s the winner! The tencel drawstring dress at Hackwith Design House. The shape is similar to the ribbed dress. It’s loose, but not too loose. I love how the drawstring brings the waist in just slightly and doesn’t cause too much bunching. The boatneck and the cuffs on the sleeves gives it a casual elegance. Everything about it is so subtle (which is important when you want to be able to wear things over and over). I can see myself moving freely and feeling very comfortable in this at work. Hope it works out!
How about you guys? What features do you look for in the dresses you wear to work?
Appreciating that extra hour this weekend… Continue reading “outfits: casual weekend”
Today, I was a student again… Continue reading “outfit: student”